An Egyptian living in Europe but her heart stayed back home. Having some random thoughts about the before and after pictures. Ghawayesh means bracelets. In my context it symbolizes the cuffs of my culture. I don't know if I like them or hate them. Thanks for passing by.

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23 May 2008

Liar Liar Pants on Fire! الى الكذاب الارهابي أحمد مهنى وأمثاله


This time I have opted to write in Arabic. Some blogger idiot claims to have witnessed a girl who had just been raped, and he blames her for going out on the street and wants Egyptian women to stay home and quit their jobs or else they would face the same fate.

I am answering him in Arabic and my reply is untranslatable. LOL

This is what the misogynist idiot wrote:


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عفوا سيدتى

انهارده انا قابلت بنت مغتصبه ... تقريبا تم اغتصابها امبارح بالليل وهى راجعه من رحلة لشم النسيم .. هى بنت مسيحيه

وانا ماشى ومشغل الموبايل على سورة ال عمران لقيت حد بيشاورلى كانت باين عليها الارهاق الشديد والضعف طلبت منى ان امسكها واساعدها فى انها تمشى مسافة وتركب فى الحقيقه انا رفضت... الحت عليا واضح اوى انها بنت ناس بس متبهدله خالص وشها بينزف شفتها وارمه وبتتكلم بصعوبه مدت ايديها اكتر.. الحت عليا طلبت منى اساعدها قولتلها مينفعش امسك ايدك.. ايديها كانت بتترعش انا اخدت موقف سلبى وابتعدت عنها طلبت من بعض البنات اللى شايفينها انهم يساعدوها... رفضن ابتعدت وفضلت ابص عليها من بعيد .. المنظر كان مؤلم للغايه... انا فضلت ادعى ربنا ان اللى اغتصبوها ميكونوش مسلمين... فى كل الاحوال البنت دى ضحيه... ضحيه لنظام فاشل ومجتمع مغيب وحالة من العهر والانفجار الجنسى والسعار اللا اخلاقى سواء كانت الضحيه دى مسلمه او مسيحيه او كافره ففى النهاية... المنظر كان صعب... اكاد أتخيل المشهد امام عينى ربما كانوا اربع شباب بالتأكيد غير متزوجين ربما يكونوا تقدموا لأكثر من فتاه ولكنهم فوجئوا بتكاليف الزواج والطلبات التى لن يستطيعوا تحقيقها اكاد اراهم ينظروا اليها وهى عائده من احدى رحلات شم النسيم... اكاد اراهم يحاوطونها احدهم مسك زراعيها والاخران كل منهم مسك قدم وبدأوا يجذبوها والرابع بدأ فى تقطيع ملابسها واستباح جسدها

فى المشهد المقابل امامى مازلت اراها تحاول النهوض ولا تستطيع... يداها ترتجفان من شدة الضعف والوهن... قدماها متباعدتان... لازالت تحتفظ بساعة يدها وشنطه جينز فى كتفها متمسكه بها وكأنها تتشبث بأى شئ يبدو ان الشباب كان كل همهم افراغ شهوتهم الكامنه وحسب حتى انهم لم يفكروا فى سرقة الساعه والحلق والشنطه... مازالت تستجدى المساعده بنظراتها وتتألم... ترتدى بنطال ابيض غالى الثمن عليه اثار نعال احذيه وقطرات دماء متناثرة فى معظمه وتيشيرت اسود داكن ممزق تماما تعلوه كسوه متعددة الالوان

ربما ان الباشا الكبير الحكمدار المسؤل عن امن وتأمين المنطقه اللى تم فيها الجريمه كان فى الفراش مع زوجته فى نفس اللحظه وفى اتنين عساكر تحت البيت عنده بيحرسوه وبياخدوا مرتبهم من الضرايب اللى بيدفعها ابو البنت دى... حاجه تقرف

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كل يوم فى المواصلات.. فى الميكروباصات.. فى المترو.. وانا فى طريقى اشاهد العديد من النساء والفتيات بيقفوا فى الميكروباص وظهرهم معوج عشان يلحقوا الشغل وفى المترو بلاقى البنات معصورة بين الرجال والاقيهم بيبصوا وبيتأففوا فى الحقيقه لا اعلم ما الذى دفع تلك المرأه الى الدخول فى معترك البحث عن بضعة جنيهات لتشارك الرجال يوميا حياة قاسية تضيف اليها حالة من التقشف والخشونه والذكورة لا يصلح معها اى نوع من انواع الكريمات والمرطبات

ان المرأة التى خرجت الى معترك الحياة لتثبت ذاتها وتحقق نفسها واخذت مكان الشباب فى العمل فى كل مكان فعليها ان تعانى هى وذاتها من بردوة مضجعها ومن الم العنوسه ذلك المرض الذى يتفشى بين الفتيات كالسرطان

المرأه التى طالبت بحريتها فخلطت بين الحرية والتحرر فلم تعى ما تفعل- فعليها ان تعانى يوميا هى وحريتها المزعومه.. عليها ان تعانى من نظرات الرجال ومن ملامسة جسدها واحتكاكه بجسد الرجال فى وسائل المواصلات وعليبها ان تفقد يوميا عذرية بشرتها وعليها الا تتأفف والا تسال الرجل بأن يقوم لها فى مقعد المترو الا اذا كانت مسنه او حامل او تحمل طفل او مريضه

المرأة التى ضيقت على نفسها بحجج واهيه ورفضت الزواج من شاب- فى مقتبل العمر له نفس المستوى التعليمى والثقافى ورفضته لأنه يعمل سائق تاكسى او بياع فى محل.. فعليها ان تعانى مرارة الشعور بالترقب ومحاولات الاغتصاب

سيدتى انا لا ادافع عن حالة الهياج التى تعترى كل الشباب بلا استثناء متدينهم وملحدهم ولا اسحب منك حقك فى العمل فأنا مازلت احتاج لامى وزوجتى طبيبه واحتاج لأبنتى مدرسه ولكن لا احتاج الى كمية النساء الاتى تملأ الشارع بحثا عن سد الفراغ الذى يهربن منه بسبب العنوسه وتأخر سن الزواج فالاولى بها ان تتعلم شئ ينفعها وتترك مكان العمل لشاب سيعمل ويتزوجها

عفوا سيدتى ولكن للاسف انت مضحوك عليك بكل الاتجاهات

ضحكوا عليك بدعوى الحريه وبدعوى المجتمع الذكورى وبدعوى ان تطالبى بحقك فى تولى القضاء وان تكونى رئيسة جمهوريه رفعوك لأعلى المناصب ونزعوا منك الانوثه ونزعوا منك كل استمتاعك بحياتك

قارنى بين متعتك فى تحقيق ذاتك فى العمل وبين متعتك عندما يعود لك ابنك وهو الاول على مدرسته ويبتسم لك زوجك ويطبطب عليك ويقول نعم الزوج انت

بكل الاحوال انت خاسرة لا محاله

عفوا سيدتى.... كلامى لن يلقى هوى فى نفسك لأنك مازلت مخدوعه
فقولى ما شئت ولكن استحضرى صورة الفتاه المغتصبه امام عينك
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ايه يا وحش الشاشة الأفلام دي؟ بقى بجد قابلت واحدة مغتصبة امبارح ساعة العصاري وأنت بتتمشى عالزراعية؟


وانت بقى الراجل التقي النقي الفقي اللي فاتح الموبايل على سورة آل عمران
قووووم اييييه الفقي لما يسعد تنشق الأرض وتطلع له واحدة مسيحية اغتصبوها
ا**وهو فاتح **سورة آل عمران

في غمرة المذبحة عرفت أنها مسيحية؟ شوف يا أخي الحبكة الدرامية اللي هي. والبنية تقول لك خد بايدي تقول لها معلش أنا ما بامسكش ايد حريم؟ ألطف بينا يارب


يا مغفل -البنت المغتصبة تفضل تشوف عزرائيل وما تشوفش ذكر من الشوارع تاني- فما بالك تمد يدها بالاستغاثة به. الكذب عيب وحرام يا عمو الشيخ
وللعلم يا فكيك البنات المغتصبات ما بيبقوش ماشيين رجليهم "متباعدة". يا حقير التفكير
كل ما استشفه من الهراء الذي كتبته أنك محروم جنسياً وشمام كبير


ولزوم الحبكة الدرامية والدود مخلص بقى للبلد, بيحكي بقى ان "الحكمدار" كان نايم مع مراته ساعة وقوع الحادثة. يا سبحان الله. هي الحادثة كانت في الخطة الخمسية؟ حتى يعني "الحكمدار" اللي نايم مع مراته في فراشهم ما خلصوش من لسانك؟ وأنت مالك؟ غيران يا محروم؟!1

ثم "حكمدار" ايه يا دود؟ لو الحكمدار كان مش موجود ابقى ابعت لل "قائممقام" واحدة
"كلمني شكراً"
بالموبايل بتاعك أبو آل عمران!1


وايه زراعيها دي؟ زراعيها بصل؟ ذراعيها تكتب بالذال يا أديب ومؤلف وشاعر
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لو ما تعرفش يا كيس جوافة: بنات وسيدات مصر اللي أنت وأمثالك من كلاب الشوارع مش سايبينهم في حالهم يخرجن للعمل لكي لا يمتن من الجوع. عدد كبير منهن مسؤولات مسؤولية تامة عن أسرهن لأن الرجل اما مات واما راح في ستين داهية بلا رجعة

جتك القرف في أفكارك القذرة انت وأمثالك اللي مليتوا البلد

بس خلاص

سلاماً

22 comments:

raaasa said...

Delighted that you are back.
Your posts have been much missed.

Ghawayesh said...

Thank you.

Ebtessam said...

hey i m really glad that u are back .. welcome back
plz dont be late on us again.
as u wrote in arabic i ll reply with arabic too..
يسلم فمك
i think i would not say something more than u did. u really replied well!
thanks for blogging again & waiting to read new things !

Ebtessam said...

HI I M REALLY HAPPY THAT U ARE BACK TO WRITTING, U CAME BACK WITH A STRONG BLOG !
& AS U WROTE IN ARABIC I LL LEAVE MY COMMENT IN ARABIC
يسلم فمك
I GUESS I LL NOT SAY MORE THAN U SAID IN UR REPLY TO HIM !
THANK YOU

Ghawayesh said...

Wow I am truly amzed that there are people who actually read my blog.

I'v always convinced myslef that those thousand+ hits were only mine. Neahahahaha.

Thank you so much Ebtessam. I am really honored by your words.

Abominatrix said...

Ghawayesh..

I have been reading your blog for a while now. But this post takes the cake. I was literally laughing while I read it. And you're right.. it just can't be translated.. how do you translate "kees gawafa" anyway?

I was so upset by what that a-hole said that I couldn't come up with any coherent response. Thank you on behalf of all women for responding to that idiot.

Please keep blogging.. it's a joy to read what you write.

Abominatrix

Ghawayesh said...

Abominatrix, I just can't believe it that people actually do find my crap funny. But I'll keep on posting it only becasue it detoxes my brain. LOL

Thanks a million Miss Never Married, Illiterate, and Unemployed. LOL

Abominatrix said...

Ghawayesh..

Yeah you read that whole bit about the Egyptian ID didn't you? Apparently, in Egypt, I'm a whore for hire.. my Canadian Marriage Certificate is unapproved in Egypt. Shoftee el hana ele ana fee?

I think it is trifling, insignificant, and mentally retarded trolls (like the guy who wrote this article), that make those utterly ridiculous laws that prevent us women from getting what we want.

synesthesia said...

Ghawayesh, I add my voice to all the others: I loved your post, specially the kees gawafa. First time I hear it, though. If you coined this expression, kudos.May I use it? There are so many situations when 'gawafah' is the most apt term, particularly because it's constipating!!
Abominatrix, I've been in your shoes, only before it was even more ridiculous.My poor husband had to supply notarized certificates,which are non-existent in his country, including one stating that the age difference between us does not exceed 25 years & a 7osn seyr wa selouk! Once finally everything was settled, I was required by law, Egypt's,to ask for my husband's written permission to travel, or even renew my Egyptian passport. I even had to register my 1 year old with the police, just in case he turns out to be a public menace & amn dawla needed to know his whereabouts! Don't let it bother you, there is plenty of gawafa in the governmental offices ;o)

Abominatrix said...

Synesthesia..

7osn seir we slook!! Is it because he's a "foreigner"?? I guess then it's not surprising that they asked both my husband and I for HIV tests. We had to get it done before we entered the country. You're right now that I look deeper there is gawafa everywhere!

synesthesia said...

Abominatrix,

Now HIV tests before entering the country IS new!!! Why would they ask you both for that when there are thousands of tourists going in & out of Egypt at any given time! It can't be for national health...bla bla, it must be the 7ama complex again.There is a kind of psychological blockage when it comes to Western men marrying Egyptian women. On one flight to Cairo, I sat next to a very curious Egyptian man. When he discovered that my husband was a "khawaga", he was astonished & said 'I know we marry THEIR women, but I didn't know they marry OURS"! Gawafa!

synesthesia said...

Abominatrix,

Now HIV tests before entering the country IS new!!! Why would they ask you both for that when there are thousands of tourists going in & out of Egypt at any given time! It can't be for national health...bla bla, it must be the 7ama complex again.There is a kind of psychological blockage when it comes to Western men marrying Egyptian women. On one flight to Cairo, I sat next to a very curious Egyptian man. When he discovered that my husband was a "khawaga", he was astonished & said 'I know we marry THEIR women, but I didn't know they marry OURS"! Gawafa!

Abominatrix said...

Synethesia..

I don't understand.. do they think Egyptian women are sheep? One time I remember someone was quite inquisitve as to why I married a foreigner as opposed to an Egyptian. And he asked me "howa 3ando marad gensee walla 7aga". Not any disease.. but a sexual disease nonetheless. You know women like us should publish our stories. We'd make a fortune.

Michele said...

Hi Ghawayesh

I've moved to Caro from Italy for my job and since the beginning I felt uncomfortably tightened by "egyptian traditions". How ever even if my project is'nt achieved I'll go back to Italy ASAP. Your blog helped me to no feel guilty.

Melantrys said...

Oh, cool, it seems you read Khalid's comment, even though you didn't publish it.

So blogspot-"boykotting" me can comment as well here now and not just lurk and read. Thanks!

For now I just wanted to say that at least some of your statcounter hits were from me as well.
And good to see you're back (although I am a bit late in noticing, I know).

synesthesia said...

Abominatrix,

Yes, we can write a book together! What do you think about that Ghawayesh?
There are people who have a morbid curiosity, what is it like to be married to khawaga, why a foreigner & not an Egyptian. It is sometimes taken as an affront to local manhood: ( do you think you're too good to marry an Egyptian?),other times a tribal knee jerk reaction kicks in, like that man on the plane. "We take their women, not they taking ours" like 'sabaya' kidnapping by marauding nomads! Let's face it, women are considered, even now, at least by some men, as chattels. A third reaction is to consider us loose 'wh***s! A very pregnant friend of mine was always on the receiving end of nasty remarks about the khawaga 'making her pregnant', on a visit to Saqara with my husband, a sleazy guard offered us the use of an empty tomb for money! On a visit to a local bazaar in a north African country, an old woman tried to spit on me from her window ( & thank God missed)! When I looked up, the pure righteous satisfaction on her face was so comical, I burst out laughing.
My cousin is married to a spanish man, his dark looks blend in, no one notices, less problems. If your husband is like mine, on the blond side, buy him a dark wig & sun glasses ;o). Teach him to say 'ana masry', it makes everyone's heart melt. People will love him, but will nevertheless continue to pester you. There is a funny side to all that.

Baha'i Family - اسرة بهائية said...

تعجبت من المبررات الغير منطقية لتعرض المرأة العاملة لشتى انواع الايذاء النفسي اوالبدنى
وتعجبت اكثر من طريقة التفكير المعكوسة التى تحصر دور المرأة فقط فى الزوجة والام
وتحرمها من باقى ادوارها الاخرى
اعتقد آن الاوان ان تتغير نظرة المجتمع للمرأة وان نربي ابنائنا على المساواة التامة فى الحقوق والواجبات

Wandering Scarab said...

Synethesia..

I was inspired after I posted the last comment responding to you, so I wrote a piece on my blog about mixed marriages

http://wanderingscarab.blogspot.com/2008/06/mixed-marriage.html]

Please, have a look. I wrote down all the comments that I could remember. They are all true by the way. Every question there has been asked to me. Ditto on your last comment. Although spitting is new! I haven't encountered that yet!

Abominatrix

Raouf said...

Where do the arrogant idiots like him come from? This was NEVER the mentality of Egyptian men.
This is not a man, he is not even human.
Where does it become OK to harass and demean women?
Why are there only few free voices such as the owner of this blog who dare speak the awful truth?
When does the horror become accepted as common place occurrence?

Here is a sad picture of how women are treated in Egypt:
A foreign woman is 98% likely to be harassed while visiting Egypt, many will never come back because of it.
Native Egyptian women do not fare better. And it is not a secret 88% say that they have seen these incidents. Is that the new normal?
http://dailystaregypt.com/article.aspx?ArticleID=15142

raaasa said...

(re synesthesia's comment above)

But then, isn't almost anything perpetrated by women seen as an affront to local manhood?

:)

synesthesia said...

@raaasa

yeah, sometimes it seems that even mere existence of women is an affront to some men!

Watcher Attentively said...

LOL, I liked your answer a lot

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